Single dad dating women with no kids
If you meet a guy you like and he has kids, here are some things to consider:1. Bad behavior often reflects ineffective parenting and other problems, and these problems will have a destructive effect on your relationship.3. There’s a difference between a divorced dad who has full custody because mom has serious issues and a divorced dad who only has his child during the summer. Hopefully, the single dad’s ex will be a reasonably nice person and he will have a good relationship with her.
The number of kids he has will affect your relationship BIG TIME. If the ex is difficult, this will cause problems down the road.
Not long after I did, would come that ever burning question, “Wait, you’re 31 and you have an 11 year old? Suddenly the conversation stops, and they disappear. There goes another potential match off into the potential match graveyard that has become the list of contacts in my phone. I am the dad in Target, browsing the toy section with my 4-year-old as he tries to pick “just one.” I’m a little annoyed that he’s taking so long, but so happy just watching him. “Picking out a toy is tough,” I say to him, laughing a little.
Crickets figuratively chirp on the other end of the line. Suddenly she walks by with her cart, and looks at us with a smile.
What they never get to see is the reality of what my life is.
Think of it from a child’s perspective: Dad has a new girlfriend for a few months and then she goes away.We support each other and co-parent because our kids are what matters, not us.We respect and admire one another as parents and people, regardless of the fact that we didn’t work out.This is what people mean when they say "it's a package deal."These days, with the divorce rate hovering close to 50 percent, the likelihood of dating a man with children is pretty high.Dating a divorced dad has many unique challenges that you won’t face with childless men.