Articles on dating trends
To older readers, the scenario above may have at least a vague, distant familiarity.
But to younger readers, it may be utterly foreign, antiquated and unrealistic—like viewing a scene from an old black-and-white film in a world accustomed to the rapid-fire images of a high-definition action movie.
Changes in relationship formation and dissolution in the past 50 years have revealed new patterns in romantic relations among young adults.
The US Census indicates that young people are choosing to marry later and cohabitating more often than past generations.
Maybe they grew up next door to each other or maybe their parents arranged the whole thing.
Maybe they met in an algebra class or a Jewish youth group.
These little reminders can be incredibly disorienting — why do these dead relationships linger?
Vox recently analyzed data from 35 years’ worth of wedding announcements in The New York Times, and found that “online” now ranks as the third most common way people meet — second only to “school” and “mutual friend.” In the older-than-40 age range, it creeps into the second spot. We already trust our computers to do our shopping and banking, why shouldn’t the fruits of the home computer revolution help us find love?Imagine a simpler time: A well-dressed single gentleman pulls up to the front of a single lady’s home in the early evening, steps out of his car, and approaches her front door.The two of them were introduced to one another by a mutual friend at a social function some weeks prior. As she steps outside, he offers an umbrella to shield her from rain showers, walks with her to the passenger side of the car, and opens the door for her. The pair takes a scenic route to a special destination: a reserved table at an elegant restaurant.Stayovers are the unique answer to what emerging adults are doing in their relationships." Jamison found that "stayover relationships" are a growing trend among college-aged couples who are committed, but not interested in cohabiting.However, little is known about the effects of stayovers on future commitment decisions or marriage.